This birthday gift was seriously delayed but better late than never!
This week there were a few Amazon vouchers delivered into my inbox as well as a couple of cash donations that I received by PP. It is really mostly slave G. who is so humblingly generous but I have no doubt many of you, guys, are just about to grab your wallet and blow my mind ;-).
I used some of the vouchers to get myself a Nikon camera.
Frankly, it was to be expected that a classy findom website like mine would get a lot of unwanted attention from other women keen to harvest “free” money. A few times a week I get an email such as those below from some young girl who begs or commands me to share my know-how and success recipe with her. Naturally, these ladies offer nothing in return whatsoever. They only demand, expect or cry for help. A year ago I had no idea women could be this pathetic. Their naivety, arrogance and twisted perception is simply mind-boggling and I am yet to get my head around it.
When I was entering the world of femdom in 2007, I first picked literature and googled the internet extensively. Next I started meeting all kinds of kinksters for amateur sessions while charging them just a small fee (often as low as 50 GBP for whole hour of my company) to compensate for my lack of experience. Some of them were happy to mentor me and I appreciated that. Later, I went to fetish clubs whenever possible. I advertised for personal slaves. I started building my fetish wardrobe and scheduled numerous photoshoots. I just liked the whole lifestyle. It was great fun just as it was hard work, often with degree of emotional labour involved. When I eventually decided to specialize in distance arrangements in 2013, I already had enough knowledge of Ds dynamics as well as plenty of hands on experience to know what I was doing.
This is not to say that these inexperienced, clueless women have zero chance to succeed. There are many guys who have so little self respect that they couldn´t care less about who they serve. And no, I´m not saying every bloke who doesn´t pick ME has issues. There are hundreds of gorgeous, established, genuine and smart dommes who deserve all the tributes they get and more. It would be so beneficial for the whole femdom scene if more guys went for those real Mistresses as opposed to the instadommes.
***Ladies, there´s nothing wrong with being a beginner, just make sure your attitude doesn´t suck!***
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