My life as a Slave
My journey as a slave began almost 22 years ago when I was just 17 years old. Other teen boys my age were probably looking at Playboy Magazines, I however stumbled across a magazine called “Forum”. This was a fetish magazine with interesting stories of Dominant women & sub men. This is where I first found that Dominant woman aroused me. I read the “Forum” magazine over a period of 6 months and noted that there were Personal Classified Ads placed in this publication. After saving my wages over a couple of months, I plucked up courage to book my first session with a Pro Domme.
The Ad read :
Double domination by 2 Mistresses £140 per hour.
I eagerly booked the session and booked a day off work, this was such an important moment in my life I can even remember the exact date 03/12/1993. I arrived at the session, the ad was only worded & did not have photos of the Mistresses. As they opened the door I was mildly disappointed, 2 women stood there, both in their mid forties & were not in the best shape. I did however proceed with the session, which involved mild spanking,caning,foot & leg worship. The Mistresses were friendly enough. They even asked me to donate to their Homeless Dog charity. The fact that this is my lasting memory of my first session obviously means it was not the most exhilarating session of my life.
Not put off by the disappointing first session, I began the search for another Mistress to serve, again an ad in the “Forum” this time the ad read :
Sexy South American woman mid Twenties All types of Domination offered.
I arrived at this session trying not to build up my hopes too much. A Lady opened the door, she was in her 50’s and my jaw dropped. “Please come in” she said. I reluctantly entered the building, my head was trying to think of excuses to leave. To my relief she said “I am Mistress’ Maid, Mistress will be with you shortly”. Suddenly my adrenalin started to build again as I looked around the room & realised I was in a fully equipped dungeon with a stone floor. This built the excitement even more, the wait for Mistress seemed to be forever but in reality it would have been 5 minutes. As I sat waiting I could hear Mistress’ foot steps as she walked down the hallway to the dungeon. As she entered I could see she was wearing thigh high leather boots, a short leather skirt barely covering her black lace panties and a leather top. The best way to describe her look would be to say she was a spitting image of Jennifer Lopez, including the sexy bottom. The session began with me having to worship her body, she then tied me to a St Andrew Cross. I was naked & helpless, my cock was hard which she promptly noticed and began whipping it hard with a cock whip. Nipple clamps were then placed on me and I was indeed completely helpless, exactly what I have dreamed of in the presence of a sexy Mistress. This was my fantasy come true. This is when I realised I had to be a slave.
Over the next few years I visited various Mistresses, some good, some bad but after each bad session, I always revisited the South American Mistress to restore my faith that this is the life I should lead. I visited her one last time in 2004 just before she retired. It was fitting that this would be my last session with her. She played an important part in the early years of me becoming a slave.
Stage 2 of my Slave development
I decided that I wanted to serve one Mistress on a regular basis, so my search began for that one Mistress. In 2005 I was lucky enough to meet a young very sexy Mistress, mid twenties, a lovely figure & a Mistress who offered the type of sessions I was looking for. The Mistress who is now a well established & well respected UK Domme offered excellent sessions. She enjoyed punishing & humiliating me and seemed to have distinct joy in providing watersports, each & every session. I believe this was her form of ultimate humiliation. At first I did not enjoy this but as time went on I just had to accept it. The sessions were very imaginative and I could see why she was gaining popularity. Over period of the 9 years I served her, it became increasingly difficult to book a session as she was always fully booked up. I would often try to gauge how much she wanted me to serve her, I even offered to take her out to lunch but eventually it was obvious to me that she would only ever want to see me during the 2 hour sessions we had every couple of months. This was disappointing to me as I had offered a lot of loyalty over a period of 9 years and was probably one of her most regular clients. This made me think that maybe it was time to move on & find a Mistress who could offer exactly what I was looking for in a Mistress/Slave relationship.
In 2014 I decided to create a Twitter account. I had previously been on various sites trying to find a Mistress to serve on a regular basis, this did not always go well as I came across many scammers, luckily I was wise enough to know when I was being scammed. Twitter however offered a new exciting way of meeting Mistresses. I corresponded with a few Mistresses, one of which I offered a chauffeur service, by another I was used as a slave to train a new Mistress. I then recall finding Mistress Arella’s Twitter profile, I remembered her from her time in London as I was always interested in serving her, but due to my loyalty to my ex Mistress I never got round to booking a session with her. Then came the news that Mistress Arella was to visit London in August 2014. This was an opportunity not to be missed, I promptly emailed Mistress to book a session. I thought I would just be seen as another ordinary slave, however Mistress Arella then asked if anybody could offer to be her chauffeur from Heathrow airport to her London apartment. After a moments thought I offered my services. This would prove to be one of the best decisions of my life.
During Mistress Arella’s visit I acted as chauffeur to a couple of destinations, including a viewing of a dungeon & I also accompanied Mistress Arella to lunch. Again another important decision. During our time in the car journeys & our conversation over lunch, I realised this was the Mistress I wanted to serve for the rest of my life. The domestic session I had with Mistress Arella was out of this world, probably the best session I had experienced outside of a dungeon, Mistress Arella showed great imagination in how the session progressed and I believe we both gained great enjoyment from the session.
Findom & Personal Slavery
Mistress Arella returned home to Czech Republic and I kept regular contact with her via Twitter & email. Then in October I received a polite email asking if I could assist in purchasing a lovely Karen Millen dress. It was so polite that Mistress Arella was not even asking me to pay for the dress, she was just asking if I could purchase the dress in the UK as it was more readily available there. She wanted this dress for her upcoming trip to Dubai. As I had some spare cash I willingly offered to pay for the dress. This is where my Findom slavery began.
This is an interesting subject, the media seem fascinated by Findom, they do not seem to understand what makes a man want to buy gifts for a Findom Mistress. Well let me explain, I do not actually class myself as a Findom slave, I am by no means rich, I have an average job & I class myself as Mr Average in society. I adore Mistress Arella & respect what she has achieved in a difficult & competitive profession. Mistress Arella deserves to be seen as one of the most accomplished Mistresses in the world, she is that talented. I enjoy being a service oriented slave, I will literally do whatever Mistress asks of me if it is within my capabilities, I gain as much enjoyment from that as I do in an actual session. So back to the Findom aspect, I enjoy buying Mistress Arella gifts, she does not force me to do it, she does not humiliate me into doing it, I do it because I gain great satisfaction in making Mistress Arella happy & unlike some Mistresses she is genuinely appreciative of the gifts I buy her.
Although I may not always have the money to buy the gifts I want to buy for Mistress Arella, if I do have spare cash I will make it my priority. My aim is to buy her at least one gift a month, which I feel is realistically achievable. However when I have a bit of extra money like I have done recently I will spoil her as much as I can. Is this being a findom slave? Some will see it as that, I personally don’t, I see it as wanting to make my Mistress happy. As a slave to Mistress Arella I want to improve her quality of life as much as I can, if I can assist in making Mistress Arella’s life that little bit better, I will & take great pride in that. It is what she truly deserves. There are too many timewasting so called slaves out there, I want to be one of the good ones.
Mistress Arella noticed how much effort I was putting into being a slave and offered me the position of her personal slave. This is the ultimate dream for me, a dream come true, an offer not to be missed. I now take great pride in being Mistress Arella’s personal slave, I have finally achieved what I have always wanted – to be a real slave to a beautiful Mistress. I will honestly do anything she asks of me.
I guess if the media read this article they would mock me, but I am doing what makes me happy in life, am I a Findom slave? I have spent thousands of pounds on Mistress Arella this year, so to some I am, to me I am not.