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Commitment fetish

There is a widely spread misconception that Western (or westernized) men are scared of commitment, are not keen to get married and have trouble communicating their emotions. From my experience it´s quite the other way round. I have been literally stalked by marriage / committed relationship applicants since I can remember. I see men getting emotional and even crying all the time. Sometimes it really makes me wonder. What am I doing to them?

The thing is, that I’m not even trying. Sure, I do tease them but I don’t really play games, give them hope etc. In fact I am known to brutally honest and usually just try to kill it right there at the start. Does it ever work? Totally not. The more I try to put them off, the more they come crawling under my feet. Some even get so obsessed that they start showing my pictures to their colleagues and friends and refer about me as their “wife”. Obviously, the whole thing is very frustrating for them and sometimes for me as well but they all have a blast while serving me. From the psychological point of view, it is extremely fascinating – the jealousy, the possessivness, the desperation, the competitiveness, the devotion, the hurt feelings and the theatricality.

You may wonder – how can I possibly put up with it? It may be hard sometimes but the reason is that the drama is very generously compensated by the best servitude any dominant woman can ever hope for. Holidays, spa visits, fine dining, shopping, fun in and outside of dungeons, personal and intimate servitude in case of mutual attraction combined with a degree of emotional fulfillment when there is genuine connection. This connection may only happen when the man submits to me fully, without conditions and compromises and proves himself 100% loyal. That means he should not be in any other relationship while serving me. If he is, I may still allow him to serve me but he would not be taken as seriously as someone without a girlfriend or a wife.

The most mind-blowing aspect of the D/s relationships is, that as an attractive dominant woman you are totally not taken for granted by your submissive fans. For some of them it may be the only chance they will ever get to be real slaves to a beautiful Goddess. They know it and are usually grateful and appreciative. But of course when it comes to feelings, one has to tread carefully. When things get sour, it is best to get out (or let him get out) and hope the sub will just move on with his life. Some accept the end of our arrangement gracefully, others less so. One way or the other, it is great to know I have made a real difference to someone’s life even if the major fantasy – to get married to me – will remain unfulfilled for most.

loser Christian K. Scheu from Neuwied, Germany

Loser, timewaster, pathetic liar, moron with ugly dick.  That´s Christian Kevin Scheu born in 1992, living in the town of Neuwied, who thinks it´s funny to mess up with dommes and force his disgusting limp cock on women who never asked to see it in the first place.

Fine dining with your Pet

can look something like this…

dogs menux

Short webcam sessions

Between May 12th and May 18th I will be offering special 15 min webcam sessions for 50 GBP / 60 Eur. Normally I only do half an hour so this is a great chance to have some fairly affordable fun with the Goddess. However, I am unsure whether I will be offering these short online sessions after 18th or not so I recommend that you grab the opportunity while it lasts. Email your sessions requests to: dom.arella@gmail.com and I will get back to you promptly with payment details. Serious enquries only, as always.

* tease * degradation * foot modelling * leather * lingerie * furs * small cock humiliation * sissies * latex (limited collection) * boots * findom * anal play * roleplay * orgasm control and more

Kindly do not ask for practices incompatible with the online environment!


How I like to relax while my slaves toil…


The world is kinky!




Total financial power exchange

Mistress asked me to write a short report about how She controls all my finances.

Without Her permission I am not allowed to pay for anything other than food and other necessities. For instance, clothing I can only get if Mistress goes to the shops with me and approves of the garments that I intend to buy.  The only exception out of this rule are gifts that I am allowed to surprise Mistress with, although She often chooses the treats Herself, in which case I buy them and bring them to our dates. Naturally I also take Mistress shopping anytime She wants. Other than that I regularly have the privilege to take Mistress to distinguished restaurants as my Owner is very fond of fine dining.

But those are not the only things I pay for. When we go on holidays, I pay for Mistress´ air ticket and accommodation, not to mention smaller expenses such as taxi or car rental, admission fees, etc. At the moment I am looking for an apartment in Prague so that I can spend even more time with my Goddess in the future. Mistress is completely in charge of the process and will be an official co-owner of the apartment once the property has been found and purchased.

Mistress also has full access to my bank accounts and credit card statements. She even has the possibility to enter my internet banking and move funds around, or take money from the accounts, if She so pleases. That itself already gives Her tremendous power, but besides that, I had also given Her a golden Amex credit card that has no limit on it. I have zero control over when, where and how often She uses it.

The financial control part of our relationship is one of the most exciting ones. I have to say that I had never felt so confident to give a woman full control over my finances and thus, whole life. I fully realize the dangers of this arrangement, because Mistress can literally ruin me within minutes by simply draining all the accounts. Although that would give Her a nice sum of money without hardly any effort, I know that She will not do that. Mistress is more clever than that. She realizes that in the long term run it is a lot more profitable to make sure I toil for Her for years and decades to come. I can rest assured that She will not ruin me, but just takes enough to make the most out of it.

And what is the next step? Mistress just commanded me to write a will to make sure She gets the rest of my possession one day. This order excited me so much. Of course I will obey!

slave Pejsek aka Pet


This gorgeous mink coat was kindly purchased by slave Simone. The rest of the outfit was sponsored by Pet.

This is how I start my days

It´s delicious to take the mornings easy while you already toil to earn me money!

breakfast edited

Satin bathrobe and matching nightie are gifts from an Egyptian slave.

An afternoon with a financial and shopping slave

A few days ago I found the website of Mistress Arella. I was in Prague on holiday and was looking for a local domme, to serve Her as a cash slave. Mistress responded promptly. She first verified my genuineness by ordering me to get Her an e-gift voucher, then instructed me to turn up to Her favourite mall the following day. She also warned me that I shouldn´t be late. Unfortunately I arrived 1 minute late while Mistress arrived 5 minutes early so She actually had to wait for me in front of the cafe where She wanted to have a drink and get to know me a bit. She hates doing that, She told me. I realize that it really is not appropriate for a Mistress to wait for Her slave.

Mistress pointed to a secluded table. After we ordered, She started asking me all kinds of questions. She mainly wanted to know whether I have served a woman financially before, whether I have ever served the same woman more than once, what kind of women were they etc. She was also curious about my age, profession, dating status and whether I enjoyed any other ways of servitude or BDSM. After half an hour, Mistress said She would now take me to the cash-point. As we walked there, I suggested that I could also take Her shopping afterwards. She smiled as if She had anticipated this proposal. I think She actually had.

We had agreed the amount I would hand Her over at the ATM by email so the transaction was fast and smooth. I entered my Pin and once the cash (5000 CZK / 200 euro) was released, I took a step back so that Mistress could reach the money. She swiftly moved the banknotes into Her purse. This very moment was so extremely exciting for me that I got a solid hard on and at the same time started feeling even more subservient towards Mistress. She noticed I felt emotional and allowed me to kiss Her hand. What a nice treat.

Mistress then said She wanted to buy some lingerie in a French boutique that we passed on the way to the ATM. Once in the shop I was ordered to hold Her chosen garments – three pairs of lacy panties, a matching camisole, a satin bath-robe and a black suspender belt. „It will take a while to try all of these on“, said Mistress. I asked whether I could smoke a cigarette in the street in the meantime. „Out of the question“, replied Mistress. She wanted me to stay around in case She needed some assistance. On top of that Mistress doesn´t like smoking so I wouldn´t be allowed to smoke anyway. Mistress asked me to draw the curtain of the fitting cabin so I was left on my own. Actually it was such a small shop that I thought Mistress wouldn´t mind if I waited outside as She could still see me from the fitting area. I was wrong. Mistress needed to exchange the panties for a different size and I failed to be on hand. I wasn´t even looking in Her direction so I think She was considering calling me by phone but then we made an eye contact and I realized She didn´t look too happy. I swiftly returned to the fitting room and took Her instructions regarding the sizes. She also told me which things She had decided not to buy. At the end I bought Her all the panties She tried on, and the delicate bath-robe. As we were leaving the shop, I obediently carried the bag and also Mistress´s jacket.

Next stop was a cosmetics shop. This time Mistress chose an eye-cream, a make-up remover, a few travel-size body lotions, facial peeling and a luxurious facial masque. I paid again and at that point Mistress said that She believed I had been sufficiently financially drained by Her and that She had no further demands.

I told Mistress how much I enjoyed serving Her that way and that I would love to do it again anytime I´m in Prague. I explained that I usually visit this beautiful city twice a year so there would be some future opportunities. Mistress looked pleased. Before we said good-bye I begged Her to take a few pictures of me should She wish to post them on Her blog. I was extremely proud to be Her financial slave and wanted everybody to see and know.


dear Mistress,

I want to thank you very much again for exploiting me financially this afternoon! It was so exciting and horny for me that I now wish to serve you in this way on a regular basis. I have decided to start wearing the chastity device for you and will only take it off each time I pay you.

I can’t stop thinking about You. I’m now really sure that the purpose of my life is one and only: to serve You as a money-slave and pay-pig.

Your slave Matthias

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