Welcome to my website. I am known as Mistress Arella, a dominatrix and an author. My kinky career started in 2007 when I lived in London. I dipped my toes into the world of fetish and femdom and have not looked back since. You may have seen me on The English Mansion, Woman Worship or OWK websites as well as plenty of others.

I have been living in Prague since 2010.

Proceed to read the FAQs below.


How do I get Your attention?

Send an introductory email explaining your D/s interests (in detail) as well as who you are. Be honest and open about what you are looking for. One line or other vague enquiries are often ignored. Timewasters are easily recognized and cut off from further communication.

I am interested in financial servitude. How much should I tribute?

Generally speaking, this is up to you if you are interested in a financial servitude arrangement but make sure to tribute me BEFORE sending the application if you would like to be taken seriously.  Naturally, I do put fixed (non-negotiable) price on my time in case you want to chat with me on Skype, see me on cam or meet me in person.

What is the rate for webcam sessions and other online arrangements?

Webcam is 60 GBP for 15 min or 90 GBP for half an hour. Alternatively, it is also possible just to text chat with me on Skype. Chat starts at 30 GBP for 15 min. Do not try to add me as a Skype contact out of blue. You need to email me first and tribute me according to the instructions here.

Do you ever visit London, Middle East etc ?

If there is a trip scheduled, there will be a notice on the blog.  However, I travel by invitation only these days so the trips are not frequent.

How old are you? Are your pictures recent / genuine?

Mid 30s. Most pictures in my main website gallery are very recent and they have not been manipulated.

Can I take you shopping? Can you drain me at ATM?

Sure. However, you will first need to tribute me if we have not met before.

Can you come to my city?

If you are willing to sponsor such a trip, it may be possible. However, do check your budget before approaching me as accommodation must be 4+/5* and for longer flights business class is strictly required.

How do I sponsor such a trip if we have not met before?

Combination of hotel gift voucher and airplane ticket directly purchased for me currently seems to be working best.

Can I be your personal slave?

If you are solvent, generous, truly submissive and obedient, I will love to hear from you. Skype interview is typically the first step. Tribute for my time is always required.

I would like to offer myself as a prospective boyfriend or applicant for marriage. Can I try my luck?

Such an enquiry will automatically get you binned and blocked and possibly ridiculed on Twitter too. I am sick of such delusional enquiries.

How do I book a real time session?

Click here and follow the instructions carefully. Not everyone gets accepted so make sure to make good impression. Straight-forward, clear, polite is what works. Ideally write 1 – 2 paragraphs.

What is your dress and shoe size?

I am UK 8 / EU 36 dress size and UK 4 / EU 37 shoe size.

Do you do blackmail?

Unfortunately I tend to ignore all blackmail requests that are not accompanied by a tribute – monetary or GC (£100 minimum). Subs applying to be blackmailed don’t tend to be genuine so I would not discuss with you before you show me the money.

Why didn´t I hear from You?

It is possible that your email got lost before it reached my inbox. If you emailed me to dom.arella@gmail.com and have not heard from me within 24 hrs, resend the polite and detailed enquiry or contact me through Twitter @MistressArella. However, extremely vague, disrespectful and inane enquiries get ignored on purpose.

How do I get to know more about You?

Visit my clips studio, buy my memoir The Diary of a Kinky Girl or chat with me on Skype (for a fee).


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